Positive words generates positive thoughts
Do we express ourselves enough as parents to our children??? Not really…. Because, as parents, we can strongly persuade the direction of our children’s lives by the words we say to them. Yet many parents fall short to do so. A lot of parents say “Oh, my children know that we care for them,”. “They know that we love them.” Maybe, but your children need to hear those positive words constantly in their lives. And the good news is that it is not difficult to change the environment around. You can commence speaking constructive certainty into your children’s lives any time you want. Endeavor to speak excellent and positive words into the lives of children in normal, regular, “daily” situations of life. For an example, when you drop your children off at daycare, before they even get out of the car, you can tell them that you love them.
Speak quality and positive words to your children every day before they go to school or go out to play. You don’t need to be a life Coach just say something like, “Your Teachers and Friends Love You and they have something special in store for you today”
Often parents slip into being inconsiderate and critical with their children, fault-finding in whatever the child is doing. “Why can’t you sit quiet? Why is your room so messy! “You can’t do anything right”. Such negative words will cause to lose the sense of value in children. Certainly, as parents, we have responsibilities towards them. We train our children to discipline them when they disobey, to lovingly correct them when they make wrong decisions. But we should not constantly badger on our kids. If you continually speak words that dishearten and depress, before you realize you will wipe out your child’s self-esteem. And with your pessimistic words, you will open a door, allowing the enemy to bring all sorts of diffidence and weakness into your child’s life.
Whether we comprehend it or not, our words affect our children’s future, either good or bad. We need to speak loving and positive words of support, appreciation and acceptance, words that cheer, enthuse, and encourage our children to reach new heights. When we do that, we are speaking blessings into their lives. We are speaking abundance.
Remember, if you make a mistake of constantly speaking negative to your children, you are cursing their future. With authority comes great responsibility, and you have the responsibility as a parent towards your child. Make sure that your child feels loved, accepted, and approved. Positive thoughts and positive talks are the basic traits that take deep roots in the lives of children.
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